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How to Tell Your Children You Are Getting Divorced
If you are a parent who is considering ending your marriage, you are probably very concerned about how the divorce will affect your children. The good news is that having divorced parents no longer carries the stigma it once did. Your children probably have friends and schoolmates who are happily living a life split between two households.
While divorce can be challenging for children to work through, many studies show that it is better for children to have divorced parents than married parents who are obviously miserable together. There is no perfect way to tell your kids that you and their other parent are divorcing, but experts do have advice to help the conversation go as smoothly as possible.
Reassure Children that the Divorce is Not Their Fault
Often, when children hear that their parents are getting divorced, they worry that they did something to cause the split. The complexity of adult relationships can be too much for children to understand, so their minds invent their own reasons for why their parents are divorcing. Make sure to tell your children that you and the other parent are making this decision because it is what is best for you, not because either of you is upset with the children. It is also important to remind the children that they will still be loved just the same as they were when you and the other parent were together. This is likely to be a conversation that needs to repeated several times, and it is important to not get frustrated with your children’s need for reassurance.
Illinois DUI FAQs
There are many myths floating around out there about a person’s rights and obligations when they are pulled over for a DUI. This leads to many questions, and people not being aware of what they should do and what they should not if a police officer pulls them over. It is important that everyone in Illinois knows what the law requires of them, so they do not find themselves in deeper trouble after the initial traffic stop. Below are some of the most frequently asked questions about DUI charges in Illinois, and the answers to them.
What Is a DUI?
DUI stands for driving under the influence. In Illinois, any motorist caught driving with a blood alcohol content (BAC) 0.08 or higher will likely face DUI charges. Driving while impaired by other substances such as medicinal marijuana or prescription medication can also result in a DUI charge. Individuals under the age of 21 and bus drivers must have a BAC of zero.
What Happens During a DUI Traffic Stop?
How Are Commingled Assets Handled in an Illinois Divorce?
If you are considering divorce, you probably have many questions about how your property and debt will be divided between you and your spouse. In Illinois, divorcing couples have the option to negotiate their own distribution of property, but if they cannot reach an agreement, the court divides property. Illinois uses a method called equitable distribution to fairly divide marital or shared property. However, significant complications can arise when determining what property is marital and what is separate or non-marital property. Assets that are commingled or mixed may be counted entirely as either separate or marital property.
Differentiating Between Separate and Marital Property
In an Illinois divorce, only the marital estate is subject to division. Separate property is not divided and instead is assigned to the original owner. The determination of what is separate property and what is marital property is not always easy. Separate property generally includes property which a person already owned when he or she entered into the marriage, as well as inheritances and certain gifts. Maritial property includes assets and debts accumulated by either spouse during the course of the marriage. Issues can arise, however, when separate and marital property are mixed.
What Is Reckless Driving in Illinois?
In early July, a Joliet man was charged with reckless driving, among other charges, and was placed in jail. Many people think reckless driving is a simple traffic violation, similar to being pulled over for speeding. However, in Illinois, reckless driving is a very serious charge. It could even lead to jail time. So, what is reckless driving in Illinois, and what are the possible penalties?
Reckless Driving in Illinois Defined
Illinois statute 625 ILCS 5/11-503 provides a few definitions for reckless driving. The first is operating a vehicle in such a way that shows a complete disregard for the safety of other people. Under this statute, reckless driving is also defined as using an incline, such as a hill, railroad crossing, or bridge approach, to cause a vehicle to become airborne.
While these are very dramatic and somewhat obvious definitions of reckless driving, there is another that many Illinois drivers are unaware of. This is when a motorist drives a vehicle 35 miles per hour over the posted speed limit.
What Are Defenses to Domestic Violence in Illinois?
Domestic violence is a problem in Illinois and all across the country. As such, the states have enacted strict laws to protect victims of domestic violence. In Illinois, one such law is the Illinois Domestic Violence Act of 1986. This law allows protections and remedies for victims, but sometimes it is used inappropriately. Not everyone accused of or charged with domestic violence is guilty. Unfortunately, even when that is the case, juries tend to sympathize with the victim.
For this reason, anyone facing charges must speak to a Rolling Meadows domestic violence attorney that can build them a solid defense. Some of the defenses most commonly used in domestic violence cases are below.
Self-Defense
Self-defense is one of the most common defenses used in domestic violence cases. Sometimes two people in a household may argue to the point that one becomes aggressive and violent. Even if they do not physically touch the other person, they may throw things or otherwise threaten harm. When this is the case, Illinois law allows a certain amount of force if you are defending yourself or your property. As such, self-defense is a very solid argument for domestic violence charges.
Defenses to Retail Theft
In May, a woman was sentenced to four years in prison after being convicted of stealing pillowcases from the Mattoon Walmart on July 4 of last year. Her charge was upgraded from a misdemeanor to a felony due to past convictions. No agreement between the defense and prosecution could be reached regarding her sentencing after she pleaded guilty.
The penalty was a harsh one, and one many people face when they are accused of retail theft. Some people face worse. It is because of this that when a person is facing charges of retail theft, they often imagine the worst. However, if you have been charged, it is important to understand there are defenses available.
Lawful Ownership
It is not uncommon for people to shop at the same store time and time again. When they have visited a store in the past and purchased something, they often return to the same store with the same product. The store owner or staff may see the item and accuse a person of retail theft, even though they had purchased it in the past.
What is Involved in a Contested Divorce?
Illinois divorces fall into two main categories: contested divorce and uncontested divorce. An uncontested divorce occurs when a divorcing couple is able to reach an agreement about property division, the allocation of parental responsibilities, child support, spousal maintenance, and other divorce issues. When negotiations and mediation fail and a divorcing couple cannot come to an agreement about these issues, the court will need to intervene. A contested divorce involves the court listening to arguments from each party and making decisions about the unresolved issues based on Illinois divorce law. It is highly recommended that any individual entering into a contested divorce hire a competent family law attorney with experience handling high-conflict divorce cases.
Contested Divorce in Illinois
Ideally, couples will be able to come to an agreement about divorce-related concerns, either on their own or with help from a mediator. An uncontested divorce is almost always less expensive and time consuming than a contested divorce is. However, there are some situations in which an uncontested divorce is simply not a possibility.
An Emergency Order of Protection Can Help Protect You from an Abusive Partner
Domestic violence is sadly a common reality for many families in Illinois and across the country. Domestic violence refers to violence, both emotional and physical, against a family member, housemate, or romantic partner. If you are in an abusive relationship, you should know that you are not alone. There are many resources which can help you bring your abuser to justice and move on to a better life. One of these resources is an emergency order of protection.
How Can a Protective Order Benefit Me and My Family?
There are several ways that getting a protective order can help you and your children. A protection order, called a restraining order in other states, is a legally-binding document which prohibits a dangerous or abusive individual from being in contact with you and/or your children. The order can be customized for your particular situation. A protection order may:
Traffic Ticket FAQs
Any time someone is pulled over for a traffic ticket, they have many questions. Will they have to go to court? Will they lose their license? Is traffic safety school an option? These are just a few of the most common questions criminal defense attorneys in Rolling Meadows are asked every day. The answers to them, and to other frequently asked questions about traffic tickets, are below.
What Should I Do if I Am Pulled Over?
If you are pulled over, it is best to cooperate with police. Turn off your engine and radio, and keep your hands visible. Do not reach for your driver’s license or insurance information until the officer asks to see them. Remain calm and friendly, and do not argue with the officer.
Do not admit guilt, even if the officer asks if you know why they pulled you over. The officer could be recording your response so they can use it against you later in court. Cooperate fully and, if the officer issues a traffic ticket, contact an attorney.
Social Media is Influencing Divorce More Than Ever
The majority of Americans have a Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, LinkedIn, or another social media account. These websites and apps are increasingly a major part of many peoples’ lives. Social media is the main way many people share information, pictures, and plans with friends and family. Social media is also becoming increasingly relevant to divorce proceedings.
It may surprise you to learn that over 80 percent of family law attorneys present evidence from social media in court and that 66 percent of divorce cases involve information taken directly from Facebook. If you are getting divorced, it is critical that you properly manage your social media accounts so that evidence from these accounts cannot be used against you.
Avoid Disclosing Financial Information on Facebook
Although few of us would share our literal net worth online, there are many ways that people getting divorced accidently share financial information on social media. For example, a divorcing husband may share online that he got a promotion at work. His wife could then use this information to try and increase the amount of child support or spousal maintenance (alimony) he is required to pay. There have also been instances when a person posts pictures of new purchases or expensive vacations online which end up being used as evidence during their divorce. Even if you have blocked your soon-to-be-ex-spouse from viewing your social media accounts, there are many ways that they can access this information anyway. It is important to practice discretion when making social media posts during divorce.
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